Good for you MCE.
I agree with you in that just saying sorry does not negate what has happened. The best predictor of future behavior....past behavior.
I am a little confused though, I thought she was in sober living near her brother and was going to stay out there and get a job, etc. What happened to all of that? Not that it's any of my business, so you definitely do not have to say. Just trying to follow along.
As I always say, I think you are doing a great job!!!