I notice much that when I'm in public we turn our backs on each other, maybe we're afraid of the outcome or discomfort of talking to another person. But the reality is that when I open myself up and allow another to have a glimpse into my life, I can learn about theirs and a new relationship is formed. There are times when I enjoy being a homebody and hermit, but the true joy in my life comes from friendships and conversation, especially with other men who have struggled with addictions.