Peace and serenity are beautiful things. When AW went on a couple of business trips, it was the best time in years with no drama.
You don't mention if/what the responses were from her about you sending the pics/vids? Did she even care?
Ya know, I would rather be a single parent (which I pretty much am anyway), than a 'co-parent' with an alcoholic in the house. The alcoholic drama far outweighs any assistance she can provide.