Originally Posted by trailmix

Well you can wait a day or so and then he will tell you:



Sorry to be so blunt, but please don't take anything he is saying to heart.

If you cannot do this for yourself (which I hope you will) please do it for your child(ren). This is guy is NOT just an addict, he is unstable. The one example you gave of what he texted to you is so far from normal. You may have become accustomed to some of what he texts and don't see it as clearly as you have heard it for a while and have probably steeled yourself to it a bit.

Please believe that he is not to be trusted, the texts are NOT normal.

If he has a condition, that is his responsibility, to get treatment. I doubt alcohol is a good treatment for a brain injury.

Stay strong, for yourself and for your child. Again, you are probably somewhat numb to his behaviour, please be aware, keep yourself safe.