Thank you again everyone. This is my first experience with an alcoholic . I had no idea and the nasty words cause pain beyond anything I have felt during a relationship... my divorce was easier. He even accused me of being a pedophile with sick feelings towards my son's friends, they are 15. I think he is jealous of my son. And apparently I am a bitch and a **** and very selfish and F...ED in the head. wow all this communicated by text. To my face... the most amazing caring giving loving beautiful woman ever.