AW is currently in a in-patient rehab facility. After that she plans on doing 3 months in a "sober living" facility. After that?? Who knows??
I think the key word in that statement is “she plans”. Who knows what her actual plans will become. Historically you know exactly how “her plans” have worked out in the past. And a pretty good indicator of someone’s future lies in their past. History doesn’t repeat itself – people repeat history.
I agree, no plan moving forward at this point should involve her caring for the child at all.
At this time, how cooperative do you think your AW would be with a legal separation or divorce? Selling the home?