Glad about your update and to hear your boy is doing well also. I took a bit longer than "planned" to divorce my exwf also. I think the 'urgency' sorta fades with our feelings and when our focus is put on to others(people/places/things)more deserving of that energy(sometimes ourselves). Keep the documentation up...that stuff is a HUGE help in a child custody hearing! Back in my Dday(early 2000's) that was a damn penned piece of paper!
