But sometimes I feel the threads on here forget there is a HUMAN, a ME behind it all.
So insulting, but I know you don't see it that way Babe. Some day you might.
What I see from you in this forum is constant projection.
Last time around, you were on board with COD staying & fighting for his marriage & giving his AW another chance because it's what YOU wanted to happen in your life.
And now that you've been served, your hurt colors your opinion that COD should just pull the cord already, because after all, it's what has been done to you.
I think if you could open your mind & read this forum without judging it through your current experience, you'd see there is TREMENDOUS empathy to be had in the majority of threads. And yeah - sometimes that empathy goes to the F&F member & NOT the addict. Huh. Imagine that WE are humans too.
This brings up a great point too - empathy isn't what most people think it is - what you reference sounds more like sympathy bordering on compassion:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1Evwgu369Jw