I agree it wont work.I know it won't.I agree she haa to do this on her own. There in lies the problem. Telling a person to pick themselves up by their boot straps when they dont have any boots.
I have tried so many things in the past year. I have called the police on her. I have called her probabtion officer.I have had her involuntarily committed. I've taken her voluntarily to the mental hospital.
This is the longest that she has made it sober almost three months now.
I see it all unravelling and I guess I just want to try harder this time.
I know I can't control her. I will back off. Let her go find some boots.