Everyone, thank you so much. I am astonished at how quickly you all have responded to me. You all are kind gentle people.
Update: I just received a text from him saying, "I miss you. I start mental health therapy next Thursday."
I'm not sure where to go from here. I am very proud of him for setting that up. It's a huge step for him.
I want to believe he'll get better. My therapist told me I should give him 90 days of no contact to see if he'll get sober and receive therapy. Then after the 90 days start getting couples counseling. What do you think?