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Old 09-26-2018, 10:23 AM
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ebecker1982
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It's hard to really know what the solution is.

I do know with NarAnon we're encouraged to attend 6 meetings minimum before we give up, but if four different AlAnon meetings have all left you feeling like it's not for you....then maybe it's not.

The forums here will provide at least some support I would hope.

And professional therapy is not a bad idea at all.

Resentment is easy to get. We've done things "right." We didn't abuse substances. We looked out for our loved ones. And then we were left to deal with whatever fallout their actions may have had and to handle the day-to-day a man (or woman) short so to speak.

All you can do is take care of yourself and make sure, the best you can, that your needs are being met.

Bless you on this journey.

-Eric
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