Did anyone else experience such incredible resentment while your spouse was at rehab and all the care and attention they get, while you are rewarded for not making poor decisions by having to solely run "real life"
Oh yes. I can relate to that. I ended up divorcing cos I was a single parent anyway as he was less than useless and it stopped the endless can you bring phone calls while he was in there. It took 2 years of no contact for me to forgive him and even now, 4 years on, he still does things that makes my blood boil. It is still ALL about him if I allowed it. He's still in rehab btw. He spent the equity out of our marital home sale to fund it and then found out if he'd used the money to buy our son's ( who were 15 at the time) a home he'd have got treatment for free. That is one tiny thing in a book full of crap he has pulled so yep I know the rage and resentment all too well.