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Old 09-25-2018, 09:32 PM
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Delizadee
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Jenny you are NOT nuts and it CAN get easier.

The most important thing you can do is take care of yourself. I really think you would benefit from some face to face support, as well as our friends and family forum here. Have you thought of Al-anon? You can be among people who understand where you are coming from and will give you tremendous support.
I am an alcoholic who has been through many withdrawals, and was in a codependent relationship with another alcoholic. I have really put him through hell with my drinking and he has no support. I feel I really broke his spirit.

You have to remember that you didn't cause it, you can't control it, and you can't cure it.
You are an amazing, loving and caring partner to be with him through this all.
At the end of the day though, remember that number one has to be you. You matter too. It's ok to be not ok. Just keep reaching out.
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