- he always plays the victim in every circumstance
And now you are playing victim to him and his STUFF.
No contact is just that, NO CONTACT, no letters, no text messages, nothing!
You already broke no contact regarding making arrangements for him to get his STUFF.
He responded by getting what he wanted from his STUFF, he chose to leave the rest.
You chose to remain in contact with him then he got drunk, the subject of his stuff was brought up and he responded with throw it out.
But now you want to break no contact AGAIN to talk about his STUFF. He’s told you, he’s shown you, why can’t you just accept that and get rid of it all and be done?
At this point I’m not seeing it as him using it as an excuse to have as an “in”.
Maybe it’s time to begin being “fair” to yourself !!!