Originally Posted by
pdm22 
When I’m missing someone like that, sometimes actors on tv or random people remind me of the person, or I start to dream about the person like crazy. I don’t mind the dreaming so much, sometimes you get these aha moments- your innate knowledge / psyche is trying to work itself out/ help you out. It can be kind of disconcerting thinking you see someone in public, though, especially when you realize it’s not them
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Yeh I suppose I'm wondering is it something trying to work itself out in me, is it just sadness because I miss him and want to see him, or am I receiving messages from the universe. Ok this will make me sound crazy, but I trust people in here. I woke one morning week before last, heard a whisper in my ear, clear as if it was a real person, it said ____ was drinking again. I have no evidence on either side as we're not in contact.
Maybe this is just my unconscious wishful thinking that I'm hearing from him.