Old 09-13-2018, 05:00 PM
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2018LizAnon
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This is so true Kevlarsjal2. Our partners knew what they were risking and were given many chances to change, but didn't. It's sad, but it was their choice.

Originally Posted by kevlarsjal2 View Post
I see more and more that most of his character I didn't like and I see how it was foolish to believe that a 40 year old man who refuses any help from therapy or self help groups would suddenly change for the better. He knows that I wanted him to change, he knows that he could've been with me had he done so but he chose against it. It's sad but it's his decision. I may not like it but I can't change it.

I'm sure your ex had plenty of chances and time to start working on himself. But for some reason, he chose not to, even if that costs your relationship. Don't feel bad or guilty, you gave him a chance, you did what you could.
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