Good job! Sounds like you’re not getting treated with the respect and love you deserve. Maybe time to start putting your feelers out for a change. Give your husband your 15 days notice and tell your boss to get out? Or is it the other way around:-) They say to not make radical changes in early sobriety but I don’t think that goes for staying in unhealthy relationships and the like. But we do tend to be a bit all-over-the-place for the first while, I sure was!