Hi Free
I usually urge caution with changes - I was a million different people my first 90 days - after there there was more and more an emotionally constancy there that meant I could assess things and not feel like I'd change my mind
tomorrow
so at 100 days you'd be just through that initial who am I deliberations.
I'm not a relationships counsellor tho - only you can truly know whether you think your needs are being met in your relationship, or ever will be.
btw, I don't believe anyone can ever make you drink - I think that's just the AV chiming in looking for an angle...
I wish you clarity and strength to make the right decision for you and your kids
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