You know what makes me mad about this?! The fact that an alcoholic can continue to dictate on whether the other party gets a say so in their life by speaking the truth and horrors that the alcoholic put them through.
I know when I said I do, it was as a team player and I was a team player but he was a selfish, self centered, self absorb, drunk who destroyed everything. I think I have a right to tell someone who asks, What happened? Why? Because that person put me through hell and I paid my dues to speak up. I don't have to live in secret anymore because it's what that person wants.
I do not care who likes this or not. It's where I am in my recovery. I'm tired of keeping the secret.