Keep in mind that just because she is going to AA meetings doesn’t mean she is practicing any kind of recovery. And if she is still hiding her drinking, recovery is not really in the picture as a major player.
You are entitled to share your story with anyone you wish as her drinking has become a part of your own story but there are consequences that come with who we share with and what we share.
Make sure everybody in your boat is rowing and not drilling holes when you’re not looking!!!