Pouring it out...
I know the very long list of why I shouldn't pour out the alcohol: 3 C's; my AH will just buy more=even worse financial hardship; the arguement that will ensue; accept or move on, etc...
I have gone through many stages with this excruciating dilemma. Early on I always poured out the bottle. The beer I left. Then I read, learned, and steeled myself not to. I regressed and poured out just enough to keep his BAC lower, but today I totally snapped. There went the bottle down the sink. And being perfectly honest with myself here, sometimes my crazy is showing. I work on myself and try to follow the "rules" since I am chosing to stay but this one always hits me the hardest!