Old 08-12-2018, 01:55 PM
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SparkleKitty
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I think as a codependent, growing up with an alcoholic mother, I was always tempted to blame myself for someone else's drinking because it fed the illusion that I could somehow control. If I acted differently, made different choices, said the right thing at the right time...then *maybe* they would change.
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