there is no program that can GIVE the addict the willingness to quit. treatment is only a short term period away from drugs and alcohol in a setting geared towards learning recovery tools. to blame the rehab center would be like blaming the gym for lack of weight loss and muscle building.
meanwhile your precious young son is exhibiting extreme signs of stress. stress brought on by one parent's behaviors. long lasting emotional scars that some never heal from. HE should be your focus now. he MUST be your focus now.