Originally Posted by DarklingSong

Congratulations on your sober time Atlast. I am only starting on the sober journey (again). I want to stop smoking but for me there is no way I am doing it until I get a bit of solid ground under me in my recovery. My husband still drinks heavily too and I hate the small of beer.....
I understand the previous posts about how offensive smoking is...yes it is. At the same time you can only do so much and to me, it sounds like you are doing really well.
I think some of the suggestions about the day bed are the way to go. Once you get some recovery time under your belt you can decide the rest. For me, Ive decided that I am making no big decisions about relationships, career etc. until I get a least a year sober.
Best wishes to you.