Originally Posted by Sissyfuss

Quick update. The two youngest are with their "parents" now even though my daughter is living there against her case law. Both phones are out of service probably due to nonpayment. I'm struggling with going to see my darlings and seeing how their doing against the anger and frustration I feel towards my daughters denial. I point out the obvious about her lack of mothering instincts which used to be colossal and she attacks with a fearful vengeance. It's the only thing that arouses the passion of her former self but its effect is that she turns cold and distant. Very unwelcoming the way she applies it. Right now I'm trying to decide if spending alot of money on the grandkids for back to school is really more of the enabling I've always been guilty of or is it something I can be proud of? Trouble deciding.