Originally Posted by
DontRemember 
If my family spoke to me that way, I'd have very limited contact,if any, with them. When I got sober I got stronger and say "NO" to people,places and things that I don't think are healthy for me. While drinking I used those as reason/excuse to drink.
I agree. I have no issue with disowning family members who don't treat you well. Life is too short.
My wife and I have a similar agreement with my in-laws. They are triggers for drinking... they are on the opposite end of the political spectrum when it comes to events currently happening in the world... I choose not to spend time with them.
My hometown is a huge trigger. I severely restrict my visits there now. It is not helpful for my sobriety. I would rather move forward with my life and not backwards.
You are your most important priority. Best of luck!