Hey Dalby
I hear ya. Addiction is a family disease they say.
Either your daughter has our disease and is fighting her own battle, or she has no idea, we can't do much except be sober and LOVE. I haven't had a drink for 10 years and every day I am making living amends to my children by staying off the grog, loving them actively, and allowing them to react they way they that do with compassion. Al Anon is such a great organisation but it's not what most people want to do.
If you meditate on peace and compassion at least you won't tend to react too much to your daughters issues.
love alwaz
mike-