Sokatie, this is part of a plan I took from another member-
1) Never drink alcohol again. Not one sip. Ever. Alcohol has no place in my life anymore
2) If I find my mind romanticizing the idea of alcohol in any way shut down that thought immediately. Should a craving grow come immediately to SR and ask permission to drink alcohol
3) Visit and post on SR at least once every single day
If we stick to it we stay sober and live a much much better life. My plan includes many quotes from SR members that spoke to me. I also documented my struggles and the issues that alcohol caused. I keep it in an email so I can read it on my phone at anytime.
You can stay sober and this incredible community is here to support you 24/7.