Originally Posted by
ScottFromWI 
That's not what I'm saying either ;-) The "cause" doesn't matter. Focus on the solution - which is one in the same no matter what the cause is.
The solution, however - does live in your mirror. And you have a LOT of say in how things move forward.
The cause matters as you will never find the solution without it. Drinking is a symptom of a disfunction.