when is enough enough?
My husband says he hasnt a problem and can stop drinking anytime, he drinks 14-20 cans of lager a day, every day. he doesnt work we have 4 kids and he still drinks and believes he is lord of the manor. The kids have no respect for him, nor do I, I feel like he is commiting suicide in front of us all. He says its all my fault and that I am useless, he says I can take the kids and leave anytime I want, but if I fight him for the house he will burn it down. his whites of his eyes are yellow, he is sick often, and he wont go to the doctor. the doctor says he cant help unless my husband wants help. What do I do, if I go to a solicitor, because of my husbands behaviour I will get a divorce and he will be out he is a scary man, but then can I live with him having nowhere else to go, he has no friends, no family, and he is slowly closing my friends and family from me. HELP! PLEASE