laura, i can guarantee anvilhead wasnt offended- it would take a lot more than any of us here to offend her. what she was refrring to is your statement here:
I didn't choose this life. It was a disease passed on from my family
that was blaming your family for where your at today.
ya have the choice today to keep going on like you are or get into action of recovery- whether the disease was passed on or not.
i dated a woman that was born drunk on a pool table in a bar.
she's 20 years sober now.