can you put a freeze on your funds that he is "in charge" of? so he doesn't decide to make some real risky shifting about and tank your account?
he was fine as long as you were acquiescent......he pushed you to get into his line of work, take the tests, get a job at his company, take over managing your retirement, making auto purchase choices, etc etc. as long as he was running the show, he was "fine". except he still had the tracker app on your phone, and who knows what else. you just didn't know it.
now the mask is off. you are no longer towing the line. i hope he doesn't know where you live now? i hope you go full no contact and take precautions!