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Old 07-21-2018, 05:23 AM
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dandylion
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Lunchbox....your are not wrong for how your feel about what he said. You are entitled to your feelings. They belong to you.....

It is wrong to deliberately hurt other people....no matter what the reason...whether it is to deflect from the issues being discussed...and it is wrong if a person does it because they are without empathy and don't care about how they affect others....

You don't deserve to be hurt by him...you don't deserve his insensitivity.....you don't deserve any of the bad things that he does to you.....the abuse that he dishes out.
He has free will, though, and you can't control the things he does....even the things that hurt you....But, you are entitled to feel angry and mad and to protect yourself from him doing those things.....even if it means t hat you have to end the relationship to do so....You have to do what you need to do to protect yourself...around here, we call that "establishing boundaries"...…

I am sorry to hear that he has done this to you....it hurts to see someone mistreated....my heart goes out to you....
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