Stacy......I dare say that every person on this forum knows how hard it is. I know that I do.
Of course he has to turn it all on you. He needs to do that---if he didn't who would he blame? Himself? lol....ain't no alcoholic going to do that, until they have committed to sobriety….
You will never be able to wrap your head around how his brain works...because your brain is different. If your brain was the same as his...you would be drinking right with him....
There comes a time, if your self conservation instincts kicks in, and you just have to do what you know you have to do. No matter how much you dislike doing it.....
It is taking your power back.....