Originally Posted by
BoxinRotz 
You drop him like you would a hot potato.
I have to agree with BoxinRotz on this.
I have been going back and forth struggling on leaving my AH (in recovery 7 months now), and what I discovered is he joined a dating site, we are still married and living together and I was having thoughts of trying again, when I thought I had made up my mind to leave. Even though my AH husband is sober he was telling me one thing and on this dating website the whole time. I know that he had been very inappropriate with his comments about other women while he was actively drinking but thought it was all the alcohol; turns out he is a true snake. I am getting the heck out of this marriage as fast as I can, you can believe that. Yes the pain is almost unbearable however not when I compare it to what I would be setting myself up for if I put my blinders back on. Go no contact, and tell the other women friends to block him, whether they do or not is not under your control; only what you do; and run...