Originally Posted by
whatsagirltodo 
Sadly, I'm not *that* young. I'm 34.
whatsagirl, you are HARDLY ancient at 34! I became aware of XAH's drinking when I was 49. I hung on b/c I "didn't want to start over at 50." Know what that got me? The opportunity to start over at
55 instead!
I know it doesn't seem that way now, but an opportunity to start over is ALWAYS a gift. If you feel you'll "get over him quickly", so much the better.
You might want to take a look at this thread for a little perspective on those feelings about your age and where you are in life:
https://www.soberrecovery.com/forums...tart-over.html ("But I'm Too Old to Start Over...")