It's cold comfort to you now, dawnrising, but like FG said above, the truth will almost certainly come out in time. Those who have a vested interest in NOT seeing it will NEVER see it, and there is really nothing you can do about that. But those are likely not the people that matter the most to you, are they?
And the others will begin putting the puzzle pieces together eventually. There is a saying that is very common in both AA and Alanon. It is simply these 4 words:
More will be revealed.
Just 4 words, but yet so powerful. If you haven't read this thread yet, take a look:
https://www.soberrecovery.com/forums...-revealed.html (As Always, More Was Revealed...) 