No, actually, Gilmer - I am not strong. You are inspiring me to be strong!
Phoenix is so right, If I have learned anything at all from my experiences- it is the quality of now. To do normal stuff and be grateful for it- not to concentrate on the experiences (even when I was still going through a lot)...no death does not concern me- what I do know is the value of life. I think this is what you are saying, Gilly. To celebrate now- not mourn the future. Let stuff happen the way you want them to happen, not how others think you should. That is all we ever can do- make sense of the absurdity of our lives and still get on with living.
Support, as eve
I have to get busy living.