Things are not working out as planned. He did not come home last night. I don't know where he is. It's been a very long time since he has done this , normally he just comes home at whatever odd hour. Yesterday (Saturday), I was doing my best to ignore him , he called me a bunch of horrible names and than tried to act nice and "get along". It's these types of mind games that have really done some mental damage. Anyway I told him he can't treat me this way, it's not normal , if I were to do what he was doing he would not put up with it. I'm not sure how to react when he does come home. No matter what I say he always turns it back on me and blames me. He says I'm trying to control him. Basically I'm trying to teach a wild animal how to be a decent human being. But with no luck , his mind is toxic.