Hi, Amusic. You've gotten a lot of advice on what looks like your most pressing issue at the moment--how to get your drunk BF out of your house. Can I suggest coming over to the "Friends and Family of Alcoholics" section of the forum to look into other types of help you'd likely benefit from in dealing with this situation? It's right here:
https://www.soberrecovery.com/forums...ly-alcoholics/
Hope to see you over there soon.