Originally Posted by
Horn95 
Platitudes are great less. Easier said than done.
Actually no, a platitude is a worn-out expression.
I'm telling you that you have to man-up, suck it up and separate the pain your wife is putting you through from the necessity you have to get sober.
Everything is an excuse to drink - the crap you're going through and have been through is cause enough. And life is just going to keep bringing the pain to all of us - loss and suffering is certain.
Your sobriety is one thing. Your wife and her thoughtless ways are another. I feel for you, but this path is yours to walk alone.