if these people were truly friends who cared about your well being, you wouldn't think twice about telling them that you quit drinking. they'd be your biggest cheerleaders, happy for you and you would be happy to TELL them.
yet this bachlorette party that is soooo important, you don't feel you could tell a single person there that you have quit drinking.
just think about that..........
sobriety is like pride.....you WAVE that damn flag!!!