I used to think
People do things to annoy me all the time.
now I think
People do things that annoy me all the time.
the difference is - I can't fix their issues but I can do a lot about mine
If you can't talk to them, or can't talk to them right now, give them a longer 'leash' let them run off and you can try and let whatever resentment or anger you have go.
If they come back on that longer leash, all good...if not. still all good
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