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Old 06-22-2018, 12:00 PM
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comtnman740
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Thanks you guys! I feel like this whole process of recovering from a hopeless situation has taught me quite a few things and I learn new things Everyday. One thing is that I have to have boundaries with people that I don’t feel are helping me in my recovery. Rather their actions and attitude toward me are causing me undo stress and in turn harming my sobriety.
Deep down one of my character defects is that I’m a people pleaser and to distance myself or move on from a friendship/relationship seems wrong to me but I know that in order to grow in sobriety sometimes I have evaluate certain relationships. I liked what was said about “having a seat at my table”.
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