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Old 06-18-2018, 03:16 AM
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Sunflowerlife
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Originally Posted by MidnightBlue View Post
I forgot to address this, and this is a biggie.

You don't have to to get all your psychological and emotional ducks in a row BEFORE you get free of unhealthy eating cycle.

Yes, psychological wounds and emotions often serve like triggers, but it doesn't mean you have to act of them.

You need a legit defense system to disrupt the chain between a trigger and a full-blown binge.

And one more thing.

For me dealing with food addiction is not so much about how much weight I gained or lost.

It's about changing my Identity.

If the mindset is not changing, sooner or later the body will catch up with it.

When I am rationalizing why I need it, I know I am BSing myself.

Just like this time.

Got complacent. Rationalized. Walked right in the trap.

P.S. Still rationalizing possibility to "start tomorrow". Geez.
I agree so much with this- it's one of the reasons why I recommend the podcast/book "Brain Over Binge." Their method is simply learning how not to give into the urge to binge. We don't have to heal ourselves first, fix our inner problems- that takes time, a lifetime for most of us. We can help heal our brain first and then work on the psychological stuff (if we feel the need) at the same time or later.
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