Originally Posted by
clarity888 
He has nothing at all to say, ever, he sits silently; meanwhile, I am being told that every single time I had a concern, he lied to me, and lied really, really well.
I have no advice, just wanted to say that I understand this 100%. This was
exactly my situation. Like you, I was extremely angry too.
Keep yourself and your child front and center. I agree that it's not fair for you to have to take on the responsibility for his at-home detox, and I hope you can avoid further unwanted entanglement in a process that is (or SHOULD be, IMO) all on him.