Bim I used to follow Flylady plan some 6 years ago. I don't remember why I stopped it. I suspect the advice to clean the bath tube while showering?
Maybe I can focus on baby steps and letting perfectionism go.
Venus - One of the reasons why I hate cleaning is because my ex bugged me about this all the way. He thought that going to the gym was waste of time and energy which I could use cleaning the apartment instead.
And he never hesitated to tell me about how this or that friend's wife manages to keep the house clean. Blah.
I think somewhere deep inside I still enjoy immensely saying "f**** you" to him when choosing the gym, reading or ufc over the cleaning.