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Old 06-09-2018, 11:54 AM
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Sunflowerlife
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Originally Posted by venuscat View Post
As obvious as this sounds, my first sponsor and close friend always used to say to me: it takes what it takes....used to drive me crazy. Finally I realised she was suggesting that I stop beating myself up about why I couldn't get it right, and just accept where I was. Not where I wanted to be for sure, but on the way.

You are on your way to feeling good every single day love.
I like this approach. Afterall, it wasn't a linear journey to get sober I imagine this won't be linear either. Going to work on not beating myself up...thanks my friend.
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