I'm glad that the mods let this thread progress a little longer. One of the things that seems to become apparent when different approaches to recovery are discussed in the same thread is the tribalism that seems to result. The "either-or" mentality that seems to characterize the discussion quickly becomes apparent. I think there's many people from different recovery methods who can learn from each other. Some folks are more open minded than others and I believe these are the individuals who seem to have the best sobriety. I hope the OP revisits this thread and finds that thing which was the objective of their search.
RIP Robby. Thinking of you.