Right before I left two years ago, right around the time I got sober, he told me I'd never be able to get sober on my own, that no one else would ever want to marry me, and that if I wanted to stay, he was going to charge me rent because I'd recently opened up my own checking account and my paycheck was direct deposited into that - he wanted to charge me rent because I wasn't a "real wife" because I wasn't sleeping with him.
I think he feels entitled to sex because I am married to him. There is alot out there to put this in his mind - and I know it's not just him that thinks that like this.
I swear to God, I just can't.